Mrs. Victoria Olugbemisola Sobowale

My 'Beloved Mother', Mrs. Victoria Olugbemisola Sobowale-Atobatele, was a mother of deep love, faith and compassion. She was not only a wonderful mother, but a blessing to many..Family, friends and everyone whose life she touched. As a devoted nurse and a faithful servant of the Almighty God, she dedicated her life to caring for others. Through her charitable works in the United Kingdom and in Nigeria, she extended kindness to the needy and guidance to the younger generation in Churches and gave generously of herself always placing others before her own comfort. Mum was a Prayer warrior who lived by the word of God and often reminded us of Romans 14: 12, that each of us will give account of ourselves to God. ('Iwo yi o je ise owo re'). Truly, the prayer of a righteous person is powerful and very effective. (James 5: 16) Her life reflected the truth, lived with humility, grace and devotion. Today, our hearts are heavy, but we rise to call her blessed, just as it says in Proverbs 31: 28 - 29 which says, "Her children arise and call her blessed.. many women do noble things, but you surpass them all". Mum, your love, prayers and your legacy of faith will live in our hearts forever, though we miss you deeply, we are comforted knowing that you have finished your race and kept the faith. Rest peacefully in the presence of the Lord. Forever loved, forever remembered 'Iya Oloye we mi ri le, Boju weyin ko w'omo re Bi won se nmi legbe, Olowo laye mi fe'.......... Rest in the Lord's Everlasting Arms ADEYEMI SOBOWALE-ATOBATELE

Victoria Olugbemisola Kaulatu omo atawa ma tasu, omo alemu nle ma laha, omo olobi ni cocoa, omo Akinwunmi Paseda, omo Kaletu, omooba Koyelu Akarigbo, egbon Lisa Akinwunmi, aya Olajide Sobowale-Atobatele. My dearest Aunty Vic, aka Mama ‘Jesha, aka Mama Deji. “Baba mi” as you fondly call me. You were my dad’s only and elder sister, but to us all, you were Grandma, and uniquely Grandpa to me, as I was born after Grandpa died, that’s why you called me “Baba mi”. Words are not enough to express the unconditional love you gave so freely. Your love, prayers, and words of wisdom will always stay with us. Your presence at home and at every family gathering brought so much warmth and grace. Even over the phone, we could hear your beautiful smile in your voice whenever we called, and I always smiled through the calls. The beautiful memories we shared will live in our hearts until we meet again. Rest peacefully, like the Queen you are. Sun re o! Babatunde, Omonibukun, and Fadeoluwarera Akinwunmi

Grandma - fondly known as Grandma Ijesha, we are very grateful for a life well lived and we will forever cherish all the memories made with you. Rest well ma. Love, Akinkemi & Family

Today, I honor the life of my grandmother, Mrs. Victoria Olugbemisola Sobowale, fondly known to us as Grandma Ijesha by my brothers and I. She was a woman of strength, discipline, and deep faith. A true matriarch who cherished family, upheld respect for others, and had a strong relationship with God. These values she instilled in her children and the generations that followed. The legacy she leaves behind will continue to live on in her children, grandchildren, and everyone she impacted. She will be fondly remembered and dearly missed. E sun re o, Grandma. Your legacy lives on.

Dear Grandma Sobowale, All of your children, grandchildren, nieces and nephews will never forget you. I remember the time that my mum told me about how you were an educated nurse and schooled in England. I remember many life lessons you gave her, such as “vex money,” that she passed down to me. Grandma, you had an incredible impact. You were very intelligent and kind to us all. From Iremide Sonubi

Today, I would like to pay tribute to a truly special woman, who has always treated me like one of her own children. Right from when I met her, she made me feel welcomed, loved and valued. Her heart was open to me. She always beamed with a warm smile whenever she heard my voice. She had that special motherly way of looking out for me, protecting me, correcting when needed and always guiding with love. Being around her always felt like being at home. One of my fondest memories is from the time I lived with Tunji and Biola back in Mitcham. Whenever she came visiting, the way she treated me stood out so clearly. She embraced me with the same warmth and care she showed her own children. She fondly called me ‘Rose’ and I lovingly called her ‘Iya Rose’. That bond meant so much to me. It wasn’t just a nickname , it was a sign that she had accepted me and loved me like her own. Her kindness, warmth, and motherly love are memories I will always carry with me. She will be deeply missed, but never forgotten. Her legacy lives on in the lives she touched, the values she instilled, and the memories i will carry forever in my heart. Thank you Iya Rose, for loving me like your own. Thank God I got to say goodbye to you in January. May your gentle soul rest in peace. You will never be forgotten. Sun re o Iya Rose Special. With all my love Toluwanimi Oyegunle (Sumbo)

It’s with a heavy heart that I write this tribute on behalf of my late father Pa Olajide Fapojuwo, my mother, my siblings, myself and the Fapojuwo Clan. Mummy was my father’s wife and married to my Father’s best friend, my second daddy Mr Olajide Sobowale. This meant mummy was part of our life since birth as the Sobowale children were our earliest friends and family. Mummy was kind and caring with freedom to run around the Sobowale household like it was home. She was always there to support the Fapojuwos even at the latter stages of her life. Deji, Tunji, Yemi, Biola, Fadekemi and Tolu our sincere condolences to you All. This is a celebration of mummy’s life, so let’s give thanks and praise to God. May mummy’s soul rest in eternal peace Mrs Oluwatoyin Alapafuja (Nee Fapojuwo)

TRIBUTE TO MAMA VICTORIA OLUWAGBEMISOLA SHOBOWALE (MUMMY ODO-OLOWU) - Colonel Dapo Akerele (Rtd) Dear Mummy, I came to know you in the church (Oke Igbala Ayo Spiritual Church of Christ), then in Sebanjo, Palm Avenue, Mushin. Since then, you began to play the role of an elder sister to my late mother, Late Primate Apostle Aderonke Akerele Fashina. You facilitated our movement to Lateef Sanni Street, Agunlejoka, Ijeshatedo in 1978 and thereafter our families became bonded in Christ; encouraging our Late Daddy Shobowale (a.k.a Omiyun) to always convey my family to church and returning us home. You never complained but did it with love and compassion. When we were old enough to take life decisions, you counselled and provided useful advice to me and your boys now men and the girls appropriately. You guided my mother and made my upbringing easy, with the fear of God and ensured we were useful in church playing active roles. Even as I was growing up and had few issues in life, your prompt intervention and counsel shapened my thoughts and decision making. After my mother passed on, you remained a mother for me, always after my welfare and that of my siblings (Bi iya ba ku, iya lo nku). You summoned me, advised me, and ensured I visited all my siblings in the UK. By your earthly profession, you were God’s gift to humanity and will forever be missed and remembered by all members of my family. You lived a good life in Christ. We all loved you but God loves you most. Rest in Peace mummy until we meet at Jesus Feet. Your son Colonel Dapo Akerele (Rtd)

Our Dearest Aunty Vic, I still have not found the right words to say since I heard the news of your passing. Sounds like a typical opening of a sentence to make for a Memorial tribute, but it is literally true for me…. My childhood memories of you are so profound, filled with unforgettable moments. The numerous family gatherings, celebrating Christmas holidays in Iśhara, was often marked with your ever cheerful comment: ‘Ómo Afotamodí k’ogún ma j’alú’. Then one after the other, as each child in the Sobowale/Shobanke Families got married, you were always at the forefront of all the planning, coordination and execution right there beside your precious older Sister(Mama Agnes Shobanke). You were the definition of commitment, dedication, and the love of Family, all wrapped into one. With you, one never met a stranger. Right up until your passing, each one of my phone calls home had you always beside Mum. The conversation at the click of the button was like clock work, ‘Yewande, hold on for your Aunty’. You remained her constant right hand from your childhood to the very end. Aunty Vic, you will be sorely missed. The hardest part is not just remembering the life you left behind, but building a new life without you in it. For some reason, you seemed like the constant star that I assumed will always be there. To live in the hearts of those we love is not to die. Till resurrection morning, Rest Well.

Tribute to Grandma (Mama Ijesha) Today, I honour a woman who was more than an aunt to me — she was truly my mother. Though she was my late dad’s elder sister, to us she was simply Grandma, and that is who she will always be in my heart. Grandma was a beautiful part of my childhood. I still remember how excited we used to be whenever she planned to visit us in Sagamu. Those weekends were special. Her presence filled the house in a way that cannot be explained — when Grandma was around, you knew she was around. She brought warmth, discipline, laughter, and above all, love. After my parents passed, she became even more than an aunt. She stepped into my life with a mother’s heart. She nurtured me, guided me, and strengthened my faith. Grandma taught me how to read the Bible. She would say, “Take your Bible,” give me a chapter and verse, and sit there listening as I read to her. Because of her — and my late uncle — there is hardly a Psalm I have not heard or read many times over. Those moments shaped me more than I realised at the time. Grandma was a mother to everyone. Her long morning prayers are memories I will forever cherish. She prayed not only for her children and family but even for people she did not know personally. That was her heart — selfless, compassionate, and full of faith. It is painful that she passed on my birthday — a day that will now forever carry both joy and your remembrance. But even in that pain, I choose to celebrate her life — a life well spent in service, in love, and in devotion to God and family. Grandma, thank you for being my mother when I needed one most. Thank you for your prayers, your teachings, your strength, and your love. You have left footprints on my heart that time can never erase. Rest well, Grandma. You were truly one of a kind.

Mummy was a mother indeed and an overcomer. She overcame many challenges of life and remembered me of the testimony of Apostle Paul that 'I have fought a good fight, I have finished my course, I have kept the faith: Henceforth there is laid up for me a crown of righteousness, which the Lord, the righteous judge, shall give me at that day: and not to me only, but unto all them also that love his appearing' Sleep on great fighter.

Your life was a blessing, your memory a treasure; you are loved beyond words and missed beyond measure. Thank you for being a guiding light and for the unwavering love and warmth you brought into our life. Your spirit will continue to guide us, and your legacy of kindness will live on in our hearts. Rest well, Mama. From Prince J.A Orekoya Family

Grandma, you were more than a matriarch, you were the quiet strength that held our family together. Your life was a testament to discipline, dignity, and deep, unwavering love. You carried yourself with grace, spoke with wisdom, and acted with purpose. As my grandmother, you were a source of warmth and stability. Your home was a place of order and comfort. Your words corrected, guided, and encouraged. You believed in hard work, in faith, and in doing what is right even when it was not easy. You taught us that character is built through perseverance and that integrity is non-negotiable. You loved through action, through sacrifice, through prayer, through steady presence. Even in silence, your strength was evident. You stood firm in your values and passed them down not only through instruction, but through example. Because of you, we understand resilience. Because of you, we value family. Because of you, we know the importance of standing upright in a world that often bends. Though you are no longer physically with us, your legacy remains alive in your children, grandchildren, and all whose lives you shaped. Your voice echoes in our decisions. Your standards guide our paths. Your love continues to anchor us. Thank you, Grandma, for the foundation you laid and the lives you strengthened. May your soul rest in perfect peace.

To the woman who chose me, loved me, and filled my life with joy—your vibrant spirit will live on in my heart forever. Thank you for being a loving mother to me, Rest on mama rere.

With deep love and gratitude in my heart, I celebrate the life of my dear Aunt, Mrs. Victoria Oluwagbemisola Sobowale. She was a woman of grace, courage, and unwavering faith. Her life reflected strength, the beauty of Christ in word and in action. Aunty Victoria was more than a relative, she was a mother, encourager, and a believer in all. Her gentle smile, wise counsel, and generous heart touched everyone privileged to know her. She carried herself with dignity and lived a life devoted to God and family. Though she has gone to be with the Lord, we are comforted knowing she has gone to the place of rest. Her legacy of faith, kindness, and integrity will continue to live on in us. Thank you, Aunty, for the love you gave so freely. You will forever remain in our hearts. Rest well in glory.